Helping Your Child Prepare for Attending a Funeral
A funeral can be a very useful rite for a child to attend. It may help him or her to come to terms with the loss of a loved one. It can also provide an opportunity for the child to learn about the reality of death, to find closure, or to say his or her farewells. If you have been invited to a funeral service near Tacoma and your child has expressed a desire to accompany you, it is perfectly appropriate to allow him or her to do so. However, if your child shows little interest in the funeral, it may be more fitting to allow him or her to stay at home.
Telling Your Child What to Expect
Before the service, talk to your child about the ceremony. Explain the order of events and what he or she should expect to experience. Let the child know that people may be upset and may be crying at the funeral and that this is appropriate. Consider hiring a babysitter to help you with your children during the ceremony, particularly if you fear becoming overwhelmed by your own grief. Many funeral homes provide a separate room, in which you can leave the children with a babysitter, if necessary.
Talking to Your Child About Death
A funeral can be a frightening and confusing experience for a young child, if they do not yet understand the concept of death. Talk to your child and find out what ideas he or she may have about death. These may be based on fairy tales, fantasies, or misunderstood stories. Try to explain the concept to him or her, with care, using age-appropriate language and concepts.
The death of a loved-one is a sad event. Here at Mountain View Funeral Home , Memorial Park & Crematory, we are here to make a difficult situation easier for you. Call us at (253) 584-0252 to find out more about our funeral services. We can guide you through every step of the process.