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What You Should Avoid Wearing to a Funeral

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When a loved one dies, wardrobe choices are usually not a high priority. However, choosing the proper clothing before going to the funeral home is essential. Wearing conservative, somber clothing shows your respect for the decedent and your fellow mourners. When it’s time to say a final goodbye, there are certain things you should avoid wearing. Never attend funeral services wearing excessively revealing clothing such as a mini skirt or tank top. Avoid casual clothing like T-shirts, jeans, and sweatshirts. Similarly, avoid casual shoes like flip flops.

It isn’t necessary to wear an all-black outfit. However, you should avoid wearing bright, flashy colors and “busy” patterns. Choose somber, dark clothing in shades of brown, gray, black, or dark blue.

Families who need to arrange funeral services in the Lakewood, Washington area can turn to Mountain View Funeral Home, Memorial Park, and Crematory. Call us at (253) 584-0252 and let our compassionate staff help you plan a respectful and unique funeral ceremony that honors your loved one.

Ways That You Can Show Support for a Grieving Friend

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When a friend is grieving, he or she will need your emotional support more than ever before, yet it’s difficult to know exactly how to support someone who has suffered a loss. This is because everyone grieves in a unique way; some mourners may need to talk about their loved one to keep the memories alive, while others may be unable to bear hearing the loved one’s name. During the funeral services and for years to come, showing your friend that you care will help him or her cope with the loss.

Conversing with Your Friend

Sometimes, people keep their distance from grieving friends for fear of saying the wrong thing. It’s best to avoid saying anything that might be taken the wrong way, such as any statements that begin with “You should” or “You will.” Similarly, avoid giving statements like the following:

  • “Your loved one is in a better place.”
  • “I know how you feel.”
  • “It’s time to move on.”
  • “It’s all part of the universal plan.”

Your friend needs to hear simple words of comfort that do not imply judgment, such as, “I’m truly sorry for your loss,” and “I’m here for you.” Take your cue from your grieving friend. If he or she wants to discuss the decedent or the manner of death, go along with the conversation and let your friend do most of the talking. If not, perhaps your friend simply needs you to sit in silence with him or her.

Offering Practical Assistance
It’s common for friends of mourners to say, “Let me know what I can do to help you.” While this may be appreciated, a mourner won’t necessarily accept the offer. Instead, be specific in your offers of assistance. Offer to accompany your friend to the funeral home to make the arrangements, walk the dog, provide childcare, or organize the reception.

Checking in Regularly
Make a note on your calendar of difficult days for your friend such as the decedent’s birthday. Check in with your friend on these days and throughout the year. Long after the funeral, your friend will need your support.

Grief counseling is available in Lakewood, Washington for all those who have lost someone dear to them. Visit the website of Mountain View Funeral Home, Memorial Park, and Crematory to access our online grief support services any time of the day or night. If it’s time to make final arrangements or discuss funeral pre-planning, you can call a funeral director at (253) 584-0252.

Spotlight on Julie Hartman-Bereavement Counselor at MultiCare Home Health

National Hospice Month TacomaSince it is National Hospice and Palliative Care Month, Mountain View Memorial Park wishes to acknowledge Julie Hartman, Bereavement Counselor at MultiCare Home Health, Hospice and Palliative Care. Julie started as a hospice intern for MultiCare, and has since worked for the same agency for 4 years. Julie’s passion for her work is apparent in her interview:

Inspiration
Julie’s journey into the hospice field almost seems like a fluke, but she believes “nothing happens by chance”. In the past she cared for her own grandmother at the end of her life. This experience along with other losses inspired her to try working in hospice. She joined the team as an intern, learned from incredible people, and fit perfectly in the role.

Powerful Emotions
Julie has dealt with countless emotions since she’s worked in the hospice field. She says the most powerful emotion she has experienced is the reality that a loved one could be gone in an instant at any moment. She strives to find the balance between debilitating fear and making the most of every moment. Over time, she has also learned how to navigate the feelings of sympathy without letting them consume her.

Greatest Challenges
Julie states her greatest challenge is talking about death, grief, and healing in a culture that does not accept this part of life or the pain associated with it. She helps people understand that it is normal to grieve and cry when a loved one dies. She stresses the fact that grief takes time and requires people to face the pain in order to heal.

To learn more about Julie, visit our website.

Answering Common Questions About Funeral Planning

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Most people know very little about funeral planning until they are faced with the prospect of planning a service for a loved one. Funeral homes understand that the people who come to them need guidance throughout the decision-making process, and they are always available to answer your questions. Here are the answers to some of the common queries people have during the process of planning funeral services.

What kind of service should I plan?
You should plan any kind of funeral service that you feel is right to honor your loved one. Some people prefer very traditional funerals, while others believe a less formal service is more in keeping with what a loved one would have wanted. If your loved one pre-planned his or her funeral, you should follow the guidelines he or she laid out. Otherwise, your funeral home will help you build a personalized service that is right for your family.

How do I invite people to the service?
Funeral invitations are usually word-of-mouth. Families typically include information about the funeral in an obituary, and then they spread the word to other people. In some cases, people who are aware of the death may contact the funeral home directly to find out information about the funeral plan. If you are close friend of the family, helping them let people know about the funeral is one way you can offer your support.

Should I choose burial or cremation?
This is another decision that may be addressed in a funeral pre-plan, or you may have had conversations with the deceased during which he or she let you know his or her wishes. If you are not sure what your loved one would have wanted, your funeral home can help you weigh up the choices. There are pros and cons to both burial and cremation, so there is not one decision that is right for every family.

At Mountain View Funeral Home, Crematory, and Memorial Park, we will walk you through every step of the process of planning a funeral. Find out more about how we can support you as you plan a funeral service in Lakewood, Washington by calling (253) 584-0252.

Tips for Finding Closure

Mourning a loved one is a process that only begins at the funeral home. After funeral services are over, many people find that the most difficult part of their grieving begins. Fortunately, those feelings don’t last forever. You can find closure and focus on your happy memories of your loved one by taking care of yourself.

Watch this video for tips on finding closure. Be patient with yourself, do things that make you feel good, and ask for support. Often, your funeral home can help you find grief support services when you need them.

At Mountain View Funeral Home, Memorial Park, and Crematory, we offer extensive funeral planning and grief support services in Lakewood, Washington to support families in their time of need. Find out more by calling (253) 584-0252.

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